1. Pick a hot haven for a spontaneous sexcapade. Under a sleeping bag In the kiddie pool in the backyard, in a baseball dugout(my new fav.), behind the 9th Hole shack or in a car parked at the beach

2. Remember how much fun it was jumping around in raked leaves as a kid. Here's an adult JustPleasure.com twist...After he has spent Saturday afternoon raking all the leaves in the yard, rip off all your clothes and jump into the pile then just wait for him to join you.

3. Collect some of beautifully colorful leaves and create an autumn love letter. On six different ones write a different part of the letter. Then scatter on teh bed on evening for him/her to put otgether... maybe it's a description of what you will be "doing" later that evening. Better still send a "teaser" leave with a seductive message in his or hers briefcase, lunch bag or pocket as they head out to work.

4. Send your lover a sexy sex invitation...
-leave an undergarment for your lover with a note saying, "Meet me at ______."
-tape a series of arrows to the wall that lead to your awakening hot, aroused body
-leave a book of sexual positions open to one you haven't tried yet together but would like to. Place a post-it on that page saying "Let's master this tonight". Sean Michael's Sex Position Guide is great!!

5. Make love to a Witch or a Vampire... and stay in costume (well, most of it, if possible)

6. Pick a hot haven for a spontaneous sexcapade... under a sleeping bag outdoors overlooking a cliff or at the beach, at a drive in, in a XXX movie theatre (a long time fantasy recently fulfilled... oooohhh so worth it), a hotel rented by the hour - truly it is more erotic than dirty! ;-)

Many people would like a steamier sex life -- but there is more to it then champagne, candlelight and lingerie (unless it's Vieve Cliquot and La Perla... hahaha). These are actual tried-and-true methods for getting better stimulation for the Big O from even the most basic positions.
Thrill your lover tonight!

1. Missionary Possible
We’ve all tried the standard missionary position before, and will always be a favorite. But many women complain that they cannot achieve an orgasm with the man lying on top. This modified version should take things up a notch:
Lie on your back and put your legs over your partner's shoulders. This is a great position if you need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm, and is a nice way to begin to experience the building of a G-spot orgasm. He'll have a lot of control over stimulating your G-spot, and either of you can play with your clitoris to have an explosive orgasm.

2. Finger Licking Good... mmm!
Many women have an easier time achieving an orgasm through oral sex than with intercourse. And since we can only assume that your partner would love nothing more than to try new ways to please you -- walk him through the following exercise:
Ask your partner not to use the tongue as a vibrator on your clit, but to caress your clitoris, urethra and vaginal opening with lips and tongue. Slower is better, so you have time to absorb all the sensations and to remember to relax.
When you feel aroused, ask him to insert a finger, ever so slowly, and rub your G-spot very slowly but firmly. Over time, your G-spot will become more easily aroused, and swollen, and less stimulation will be necessary to feel ready for orgasm.
The point & purpose of this exercise is to relax and allow the sensitivity and pleasure to grow and evolve by shifting your focus bit by bit from clitoris to G-spot, over many lovemaking sessions.

3. Face to Face on a Stool
A tall kitchen stool is perfect for communicating and slowly working up to soulful eye-to-eye communication. If you are used to closing your eyes and burying your head in the pillow, you'll find that in this position you are more present and equal. No one's weight is on anyone, you are facing each other (he's standing and you're sitting). You can look down at his penis, and he can get valuable feedback about the types of strokes he is delivering when he sees your face and hears your delighted sounds.
Because this position provides intense stimulation to the G-spot and a clear, direct way to communicate, this is the best position for both of you to learn how to awaken and stimulate your G-spot. Your clitoris can also be easily stimulated.
This position is excellent for deep penetration -- if the stool is sturdy -- and for exploring how deep, penetrating thrusts can trigger the sensations of a uterine orgasm (different than a vaginal orgasm, but equally enjoyable). It's likely that at first you may not have an orgasm and you may not ejaculate, but it's worth it to explore a uterine orgasm.

4. Stand behind your Woman
This position borrows certain elements of the popular "doggy-style" position, where the woman is on her hands and knees and is entered from behind. But if you try standing up, slightly bent forward, you'll find more pressure on the G-spot than with the traditional doggy-style position. Your partner's movements will push forward against your G-spot, and that's exactly what you want for good stimulation.
In all these sexual positions, it is important to have your G-spot aroused before he enters. Expressing your delight in your growing sensitivity and arousal is the best way to communicate with him. If he hears, "Oh, oh, my gosh! Oh, that is so sensitive!" he will slow down, but stay aroused and excited. If you say, "I need you to slow down," especially in a non-erotic voice, he may feel he is being dictated to or worry that he is not pleasing you. His fun and confidence will be affected and he may lose his erection. G-spot sensitivity, G-spot orgasms and ejaculating freely will not happen overnight. He'll learn a few things, and you'll give up a few things while you wait for him to catch up. Let him know when he really hits the target. It's helpful to say to your partner, "Oh, oh, oh, please remember that spot!" That gets the message across in an exciting way.
Don't expect him always to remember, but do expect him to catch on after a while. The great thing about all these positions -- and more generally about learning to awaken your G-spot -- is the gradualness with which this can occur. Unlike learning to have an orgasm, which often leads people to stick to one method, variety in how you experience pleasure and orgasm will increase as you slowly incorporate your G-spot awakening into what you already do?

1. An Artisan's Evening
Get a set of body paints, or create your own using household products like chocolate syrup, cherry filling, aerosol whipped cream, etc. Lay out a large sheet, one that is okay to get stained, on the floor. Spend the evening painting each other! Follow up with a steamy shower to rinse each other off.

2. His and Her's Night
Start the day by wearing "his and her's pajamas" (she in the top, him in the bottoms). Watch HIS favorite movie, followed by HER favorite order in or take out. After the movie, make HIS dessert & HER after-dinner beverage. Now concentrate on HIS choice of foreplay then HER choice of positions, then HIS choice of… well, you get the idea

3. Famous Passionate Couples
Choose a famous couple, like Anthony and Cleopatra, and create a romantic encounter like they would have celebrated. You'll need to get costumes, food, decorations, theme music and something for entertainment. A gift idea to include may be: a famous couples love story book, a love diary or journal, memory book, or tickets to the place the couple reside(d).

4. An “Us” Day
Take a few classes or read up on the art of Tantric massage. Start the occasion with an hour-long massage with your new skills, followed by a round or two of romantic game play (i.e. with games like SexPlay or Romantic Rendezvous). For a real treat, bring in a couple professionals to give you both massages in your own home... pure decadence

1. Rub their feet after a long day.

2. Spend a day at the pumpkin patch together, then carve out secretive & graphic images for each other on your pumpkin ... but remember the children in the area might see them... Submitted by TK

3. Tell your lover how sexy, handsome or beautiful they are... praise is a great turn on

4. Ask each other out on dates.

5. Stick Post-it Notes on their car with little love messages.

6. Save time in the morning and take showers together... OK, perhaps this won't save time but make you late... but worth it!

7. Try Tantric Loving. Check out www.sacredsecrets.com

8. Flirt with your lover like you did the first night you met. Submitted by HC

9. Send a suggestive e-mail to their office... to their private in-box.

10. Give your lover a kiss when reconnecting at the end of the day clearly expressing how much you missed them

Our Top 10 List of Kisses *newest ones

1*. Drizzle Licks - The HOTTEST and most pleasurable kiss I know.... hhmmm, yummy!
If you two are sharing some champagne (try Vieve-the best) -- or any beverage -- let your lover pour (or take the initiative to pour) a little down your chest/breasts and let your lover lick it off gently. Or you could dribble some into his chest and belly button and then lap it up!
Turn over (or turn your lover over) and continue to drizzle down their upper back to lick between their shoulder blades -- an incredibly sensitive spot-- some lovers can't even tolerate such powerful stimulation. Next, move down your tongue and kisses to the top of their butt. This area is very sensitive. Massage the butt using circular strokes, slowly moving lower and lower until you can start to stimulate their genitals - still tasting and drizzling the champagne.
Take control and gently open their thighs to allow you to tickle them with your lips, your tongue or a the bottle. Or ask your lover to keep their back to you and rise up on all fours so you can reach around from behind for some extra stimulation. This position leaves many of their most sensitive exposed for extra rubbing while you continue to lick and kiss them all over their back, butt and back of their legs.
SOOOO incredible...

2. Hairy Kiss - In the heat of a passionate lip lock, grab a fist full of her hair to force a tilt in her head and pick up the intensity with an unimaginable kiss right out of her fantasies

3. Corner Kiss - After lightly licking the left corner of your partner's lips, watch their head tilt and strain trying to get a full frontal kiss BUT>> build the anticipation by switching to the other side of their mouth.

4. Needful Kiss - Kiss like you have be dying to taste them ALL DAY. Kiss like you NEED THEM. Kiss like you must have them NOW!!

5. Toe Kiss - for all the "foot people" (this is ideal after a long soak in the hot tub or after a bath). Start with a soft foot massage, place your lover's foot on your cheek as you spread sensual kisses along their arch while moving towards their toes. If the moment feel right slowly suck, nibble and cherish each toe starting with the big one... this sends every "foot person" over the edge.

6. Intersection Kiss - The next time you and your lover are following each other while driving in separate cars to the same destination, wait til you both stop at a red light, then... jump out of your car to surprise them with a kiss that says I can't wait til we're alone! Watch them break all kinds of speed laws to be waiting and ready for you.

7. Neck Seduction - Surprise your lover by going behind them, moving their hair out of the way& passionately kissing the exposed skin. Lightly lick the nape of their neck and gently pull away... as if nothing happen...

8. *French Dreams - Gently start by teasing your partner with the tip of your tongue as it enters their mouth while kissing; then as you become more heated play some serious tonsil tag that would make our Sexy French friends proud!! Being fully engulfed with each other in a sexy & hot kiss will make you say "ou-la-la"

9. Alphabet Kiss - make a vow to re-learn the alphabet the JustPleasure.com way. When you see each other for the first time at the end of the day, embrace tightly while kissing & saying the alphabet in your head. Do not release til you get to "Z"... I guarantee you'll lose track at G or H and just enjoy the moment.... enjoy it more by starting over and trying again.

10. Sneak Peak Kiss - After a passionate lip lock; open your eyes and if your partner's eyes are still closed. See the pleasure on their face & know you did a good job.

11. Lobe Lick - Gently run your tongue along the rim of your lover's ear lobe while whispering passionate fantasies you would love to share

1. Your unconditional LOVE.

2. You with a bow on and nothing else.

3. Time alone with you.

4. A romantic evening you plan.

5. A full uninterrupted day with you.

6. An Alphabet Kiss.

7. A heartfelt "I love you".

8. A hug.

9. A love letter.

10. Your whole heart.

This Month's Position - Reverse 69 - The 96!
Perform the traditional 69 position with HER on top.
Keep your bodies cocooned together - your body heat and accessible limps add on immeasureable treat to this position. Reserve tradition and you'll never go back.