1. Hanky Panky Heart Beats
To feel more connected in bed, tune into each other's heart rate. Lay your hand on his chest, and have him do the same. You might be surprised how easily you can become synchronized. Since heart rate speeds up during orgasm, if you stay hand-to-heart connected while you do it, you'll feel how wild you're driving each other.

2. Putting on the Ritz
You know how hotel sex is always extra hot? Try re-creating that away-from-home atmosphere in your own bedroom. First, purge your room of any family photos or office equipment. Then buy sheets with the highest thread-per-inch count you can find (we recently got 800 thread count - and yes, it makes a difference), which feel supersilky on your skin without the cheesiness of satin. Invest in some thick, fluffy robes to lounge around in (Linens n Things have some wonderful ones). And for the ultimate hotel-style indulgence, set up a tray of champagne and finger foods to savor after you make love. You'll both feel like you're on an incredible vacation from the rest of the world.

3. Toy With Him
Stock up on some new sex toys. Velvet-lined handcuffs can be exciting, and they don't hurt like the metal ones do. Silk blindfolds build a sense of suspense -- which can be really titillating. And you can never go wrong with a new vibrator. Ask him to buzz it against your clitoris or tell him simply to sit back and watch how you handle it. It will feel amazing for you, and he'll be so turned on just by seeing how affected you are.

4. Eyes Wide Open
Don't close your eyes during sex. This is a great way to explore more of the emotional side of intercourse. Start by kissing with your eyes open and looking at each other during foreplay. Gradually build up until you can sustain eye contact throughout both of your climaxes. You'll experience your orgasm in a totally different way. It's abit of a revelation.

5. Sexy Slo-Mo
To surprise them and build anticipation, try doing the same things you always do in the bedroom, but slow down to one-fourth of your normal speed. You'll have time to really bond, and since you'll be feeling sensations over a longer period of time, your orgasms will likely be much more intense.

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1. When he tells me he loves me by quietly whispering it in my ear. The heat of his breathe, the closeness of his lips and his gentle words starts everything flowing for me - CM

2. It really turns me on when she tells me how much she loves me or how much she wants it when we are making love - JT

3. While kissing, he always gently bites my lover lip! - BC

4. Sucking on my toes - PS

5. When we are in a public place like a party, she whispers sexy nothings in my ear! - NM

6. In the middle of the night, when he cuddles up behind me to gently spoon but I can tell or "feel" that he has other things on his mind.

7. When he gives me a big "I missed you today" kiss by holding my face in his hands and looking deeply into my eyes. - DZ

8. I would love to make love in his hot tub - in the apartment complex - very public! - TT

9. Turns me on when she nibbles me everywhere. - BH

10. I feel like we are a meeting of the souls and he really loves me when he pays every single bit of his attention to me and looks me in the eye. - CL

11. I want to be tied up and blind folded - BL

12. I want to go to the park and make love in the woods - with only the birds watching - MH

13. I'd just love to have sex on beautiful beach with my husband - simple, I know - MS

14. Might be a cliché - but I was turned on when she arrived at my work one day in nothing but a trench coat and heels on. We made love until my next appointment buzzed me - WG

15. I would love to abduct her from work one day and make her my love slave for the weekend - GM

16. I am at her mercy when she gently blows on the back of my neck - AC

17. I would love to recreate or role play a "first meeting seduction" with my boyfriend, where we go somewhere and act as if we just met. I would love to have him seduce me all over again - ST

18. I have a fantasy of making love to him with other people in the room, with all attention on us.

19. I would love to watch my wife make love to a woman - PR

20. I get turned on when I come home from work and my girlfriend is making dinner in only an apron - TW

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1*. TOP Drizzle Licks - The HOTTEST and most pleasurable kiss I know.... hhmmm, yummy!
If you two are sharing some champagne (try Vieve -the best) -- or any beverage -- let your lover pour (or take the initiative to pour) a little down your chest/breasts and let your lover lick it off gently. Or you could dribble some into his chest and belly button and then lap it up!
Turn over (or turn your lover over) and continue to drizzle down their upper back to lick between their shoulder blades -- an incredibly sensitive spot-- some lovers can't even tolerate such powerful stimulation. Next, move down your tongue and kisses to the top of their butt. This area is very sensitive. Massage the butt using circular strokes, slowly moving lower and lower until you can start to stimulate their genitals - still tasting and drizzling the champagne.
Take control and gently open their thighs to allow you to tickle them with your lips, your tongue or a the bottle. Or ask your lover to keep their back to you and rise up on all fours so you can reach around from behind for some extra stimulation. This position leaves many of their most sensitive exposed for extra rubbing while you continue to lick and kiss them all over their back, butt and back of their legs.
SOOOO incredible...

1. Nibble Kiss - alil' nibble on your lover... anywhere... at a rare unexpected moment will send shivers down their spine. The key here is the unexpected...

2. Corner Kiss - After lightly licking the left corner of your partner's lips, watch their head tilt and strain trying to get a full frontal kiss BUT>> build the anticipation by switching to the other side of their mouth.

3. Needful Kiss - Kiss like you have be dying to taste them ALL DAY. Kiss like you NEED THEM. Kiss like you must have them NOW!!

4. Toe Kiss - for all the "foot people" (this is ideal after a long soak in the hot tub or after a bath). Start with a soft foot massage, place your lover's foot on your cheek as you spread sensual kisses along their arch while moving towards their toes. If the moment feel right slowly suck, nibble and cherish each toe starting with the big one... this sends every "foot person" over the edge.

5. Intersection Kiss - The next time you and your lover are following each other while driving in separate cars to the same destination, wait til you both stop at a red light, then... jump out of your car to surprise them with a kiss that says I can't wait til we're alone! Watch them break all kinds of speed laws to be waiting and ready for you.

6. Neck Seduction - Surprise your lover by going behind them, moving their hair out of the way& passionately kissing the exposed skin. Lightly lick the nape of their neck and gently pull away... as if nothing happen...

7. Outline Kiss - Outline your lover's lips with the tip of your tongue, before you go in for the real thing.

8. Alphabet Kiss - make a vow to re-learn the alphabet the JustPleasure.com way. When you see each other for the first time at the end of the day, embrace tightly while kissing & saying the alphabet in your head. Do not release til you get to "Z"... I guarantee you'll lose track at G or H and just enjoy the moment... enjoy it more by starting over and trying again.

9. Sneak Peak Kiss - After a passionate lip lock; open your eyes and if your partner's eyes are still closed. See the pleasure on their face & know you did a good job.

10. Lobe Lick - Gently run your tongue along the rim of your lover's ear lobe while whispering passionate fantasies you would love to share.

1. In a movie theatre ...perhaps not the cineplex.

2. Under a waterfall on a tropical vacation.

3. On the 9th green of your favorite (or most private) golf course.

4. In your backyard or on your porch under the stars.

5. In a boat while drifting in the ocean, on a lake, or on any body of water.

6. In a bed with silk sheets... better than satin, I promise.

7. On a trampoline... imagine the bounce effect.

8. In an elevator.

9. In a convertible on the side of the road as traffic goes by.

10. On the back of an empty bus.

11. In a parked car, just like a teenager, at the airport watching the planes come in.

1. Rub their feet after a long day.

2. Spend a day at the pumpkin patch together, then carve out secretive & graphic images for each other on your pumpkin ... but remember the children in the area might see them... Submitted by TK

3. Tell your lover how sexy, handsome or beautiful they are... praise is a great turn on

4. Ask each other out on dates.

5. Stick Post-it Notes on their car with lil' love messages.

6. Save time in the morning and take showers together... OK, perhaps this won't save time but make you late... but worth it!

7. Try Tantric Loving.

8. Flirt with your lover like you did the first night you met. Submitted by HC

9. Send a suggestive e-mail to their off ice... to their private in-box only please.

10. Give your lover a kiss when reconnecting at the end of the day clearly expressing how much you missed them.

11. GET A BABYSITTER - better yet, arrange one on a schedule i.e. every Friday night or the third Thursday of every month, then you can prepare for your date nights together on a regular and consistent basis. You don't need to do a big night out... the time together reconnecting is the most important. Spend a few hours over lattes at Starbuck's sharing your week, your trials and tribulations are what keep you connected as a couple.

12. A picnic in the moonlight or in front of your fireplace

13. Put on your favorite music and dance togethr under in the stars or in the rain on your balcony.

14. Cuddle on the couch watching a movie - like you did in the beginning.

15. Take your morning shower or evening bath together - have some fun with a loofah.

16. Start each and every day with "I love you"

1. Your unconditional LOVE.

2. You with a bow on and nothing else.

3. Time alone with you.

4. A romantic evening you plan.

5. A full uninterrupted day with you.

6. An Alphabet Kiss.

7. A heartfelt "I love you".

8. A hug.

9. A love letter.

10. Your whole heart.

This Month's Position - The Car Bridge

She lays back on the hood with him standing in front of her between her legs. She lifts her legs so that she can hook the back of her heels over her partner's shoulders. The woman then tilts her pelvis up to straighten her back, lining her crotch up with the thrusting of his cock. The man can support her lower back with his hands, and lean back slightly. The woman can vary the angle of her pelvis for better G-spot or clitoral stimulation. This position allows for deep penetration and will make you both feel like porn stars.

~Boys, please note: a nice touch would be a blanket under her back :-) ~